It kind of feels like a switch of power. I feel like I'm in the (much) better position now. DBing at its finest. I'm the one with the great perspective now, good life, I can find a new partner, I'm fairly happy, grew a lot. And where's W at???
Learn to use your new power in humility and toward worthy ends, Complex. Sometimes the high road carries the greater burden. Draw satisfaction from your stance so far, yes, but continue to treat your wife with humility and grace and you never know what the future might hold.
This is a battle I fight often, and have had to learn over time.
