She is getting more irritable. I have been following the 180's/last resort to a T. I am not bringing anything regarding the M up. Conversations are friendly, but focused on logistics of the kids.
Trying to GAL or at least make it look like I am GAL. Last night after the D's went to bed, I just went to Starbucks to do some work. At least try to be a little mysterious.
The only thing that's come up recently was that a credit card bill came and I didn't recognize a charge so I had to ask her about it. She just said that it was her original consultation with her attorney and I said "oh, okay."
There's little doubt that she'll be telling me tonight (assuming she still wants to talk, I'm not going to push it), that she's ready for a divorce. I'm prepared to mirror and validate. If/when I feel my emotions getting out of check, my exit strategy is to simply tell her that I'm leaving and spending the night at a friends so that I can take some time to process and think about what she's said.
Any support would be helpful from this virtual world. I'll post tonight or tomorrow what happens as I'm sure I'll need some additional advice.
