IS it better to be living together separated or would it be better to ask her to move out? 4 months in and things seem to be getting worse. What would be better for children? With me being Mr. mom she can do what ever she wants knowing that I'm home taking care of the kids. She can do for dinner or drinks anytime she wants after work. My day just starts after work. Cooking, homework and taking kids to activities. Maybe being apart she would realize that she cant take care of kids and how much I actually do. Don't want to be together for the kids, but she also thinks I don't do anything.