Thanks Raliced and Gan. Raliced, you are right. He is a lovely man, and not a bad person, but he has little to offer right now. Gan, thanks for clarifying, I tweaked things and have just sent him the reply below:

H, I'm so sorry you feel that way. It must be hard to feel you missed out on being a full time Dad. You already know this isn't what I want, and I'm sad about your decision. But you know, I've already come a long way, and I know that I'll be okay.

I guess I'll wait to hear from you about moving things forward. We can start taking steps to list the house, though a financial settlement would need to be in place before a sale could proceed.

If I can help in any way, just let me know.

Take care, Toots.


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus