Hi Toots

Mmmm, not my strongest field. I think its a balance between validation and bringing the strong, forward moving and punchy toots who posts here to the response to H?

Having had a tinker, maybe something like

H, thank you for getting in touch, I'm so sorry you feel that way. It must be hard to feel you missed out on being a full time dad. I think you must already know this isn't the direction I wanted us to go in, or what I want, I don't intend filing for divorce but equally I want us both to be happy going forwards.

We can of course start taking steps to list the house and we will equally need to begin drafting a financial settlement which will need to be in place before a sale could proceed.

If I can help in any way, just let me know.


As I said I'm not the best at this though, as per Gans comment (darn now I need an I agree with Gan t-shirt too!) just look to your heart as to what you want to say and make sure its reflected.

Remember we're all with you and you'll be fantastic toots smile


M:44, W:46, S:10
M 13 years, T 15
BD:23/7/2014
W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014
My new place: 21/11/2014
W/S back to flat 22/11/2014
W coming closer, talking 4/2015
Piecing 5/2015
Moving in again 6/2015