Just to clarify, when I ask is it from the heart - I mean is it an honest reflection of where you are at. If he said, OK...happy with what you propose...are you OK with that? I think you response should reflect exactly what you want (barring R as that appears not to be on the table right now).
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014