Glad to hear you sound bright this morning (at least here) can't have been an easy thing to read but temper it against the fact limbo has been broken and the job news is great (well done you, hope you are suitably impressed at your abilities and rewarded yourself and possibly BAWFT suitably!)
You can have all the positive vibes you can handle from BFT and I (((((Toots))))) no worries at all.
Reading the draft I wonder should you mention not standing in the way, your position is you dont want this and are not going to file (and are still standing or at least "happy" moving on as you are) I wouldnt necessarilly give a tacit green light for him to go ahead - just my .02 though.
The house listing part sounds ok though, it may well be that even if you both find yourselves in a future where you are together that wouldnt be the place to build it as it holds old memories and vibes.
Certainly chats between w and I about "potential" futures lead to us both moving from where we are - possibly area as well since we're not restricted by daily commutes or schools - and finding somewhere completely new to build a new home with new memories.
Just keep tootling, you're doing so, so well!
Cheers
Edz
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015
