Hey Bob.....ouch! I truly get it. My H sent me a few very terse texts in the months after BD. And it does hurt. On the plus side it becomes easier to detach. You guys probably have a pretty long road, which is actually made harder if your S is dropping kibbles the whole time. And things like this text are why detaching becomes so important. It's good to get to the point where you can be more 'shruggy' about this kind of thing. And you;ll get there.
So, she's doing what she's doing right now. Try not to read into things 'maybe she's just moved on' etc...and move forward yourself. Build up your GAL plans to give your mind more time away from your sitch, and create a life that you would be happy with going forwards.
((Bob))
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
