So please quit hanging on her every action waiting for her to be ready to recommit to M. It only hurts your heart and takes your eyes off your growth.
I'm glad your NC. It will allow you to start to stabilize. Take it easy, it's a long road, so relax and keep posting.
Hi RealMe,
First, I want to commend you on the tremendous amount of support and love you are showing on this forum. I am so proud of you.
Zues made many good points in his last post, especially what I quoted above. It's given me a bit of a different perspective on my situation.
As Zues suggested, take it easy. And keep it going....10 days...11 days...12 days...I KNOW you can make it.
Your friend.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
