I'll answer your question with a question: What do you call an elephant mixed with a rhinoceros and an elephant? Elephino.
And what's the difference between ignorance and apathy? I don't know and I don't care.
Those are my answers to you about what she meant.
I get it. I really do. My first three months post BD I analyzed everything she wrote, her choice of words (did she say "angry" or "upset"?!?!?!?).
Guess what, she's on her own journey and won't be coming back anytime soon. Time to take a few detachment pills.
I know it's not easy, and you may have to stew. But we here on DB care for you and can't play the obsessive game with you. We have to steer you straight.
Back to YOU. I am only reading your thread now, and though this is part three (so you might have done this on I & II) I haven't seen anything about what you are working on, your GAL, your 180s, your goals, your personal growth. It's too easy to get caught up in the soap opera and just report the latest gossip. Turn the soap off and let's hear more about what you're doing for you
Of course I am praying for you, sending you support, and mean those words with nothing but good wishes Bob!
Last edited by Zues126; 05/01/1504:01 AM.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15