I think you're doing the best you can under the circumstances.
We all understand why what she does or doesn't do bothers you. As you know, I'm a lot like that with my STBX. You can only control your actions. Let's pray that someday she wakes up and starts doing the right thing.
I really love Mozza but have to disagree about exclamation points!
Hang tough buddy!
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15