Anytime she demands something, just come on over to the forum, ask your question and we'll help you through it.

When she DEMANDS an answer. Just repeat back what she wants, and say you will get back to her and stop talking.

I'll give you an example.

HeavyD, I want you to bend over backwards and punish yourself right now.

"So, let me see if I heard you right, you want me to bend over backwards and punish myself? Okay, I'll get back to you by tomorrow on that".