It's a no win with her right now. No matter which way I turn, it's wrong, not high enough, not low enough, just wrong. So since I know that already, I just make validating statements.
She is a force to be reckoned with!! (she thinks). My L said she is a typical blow hard and to ignore her.
Yeah, that was one of the main reasons I dropped out of the mediation process. We reached an impasse and the mediators suggested we talk to their one lawyer to see if that helped. Both of us talking to the same person.... errrr...no.
So, she said she "did what she was supposed to" and talked to the lawyer and was told that she had already conceded too much and she will start from scratch - including the 50-50 custody issue. I just smiled.
So, yes, she told me to drop my lawyer, continue with the mediation (where we couldn't agree), so we can get this over with.
It's like I have fallen down the rabit hole.
My therapist said she has many many clients like her. She said she is so angry now because she has realized that she can't control me any more and that now she is starting to see the consequences of her actions and what she will lose.
Fairy dust and unicorns are starting to fade away in her fantasy land.
