Dealing with WAW part 7

[pilot]

Thanks Bob. I knew about her having an A back a couple months before I came across DB. That is when I really blew things as all LBS do. The first BD back in Sept. of 2013 I actually handled myself relatively well. I say relatively because there was still the hovering, and pursuing. But not nearly as bad as the following April when I first learned of the A. Although later I find out she lied about the few things she did confess about the A. It was always right there for me to "follow up on" or "discover" but what I learned from DB was that it was enough to know there was OM and an A. The details at that time would serve me no good towards my goal of R. Only after I filed for D in our new state (an at fault state) and we got a judge where 99% of her cases she gave out physical/visitation custody did I go searching for the details in building my case. According to my L it is looking very strong I will end up with custody and she will be an 'every other weekend' parent. I am sure that was not part of her equation. Which makes any R very difficult after the fact because then how do you really know what her motives are? Repairing the M or getting the kids?

Either way, life goes on and I am happy each day I wake up.