Heavy, if it were me (and keep in mind I am definitely a passive aggressive person) I would validate her when she tells you that you hiring a L prolongs the process. And suggest that if time was of the essence for her, that perhaps you both could use YOUR lawyer. Let her argue her way out of that one.

Again, I am PA smile


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16