I am still comfortable with the D moving forward. Do I sometimes think about R? Sure, I guess we all do. And honestly, if I had to put money on a bet, I would say once she realizes I know everything, but am still ok and not taking it out on her, she may even make an overture towards R. Something in my gut says she is open to it but afraid I am too far gone, or me knowing the truth would be something I would never get over. Its a shame, because in the real world, all that matters is trust and honesty. Had she come out and told me everything when it first happened, yea, I probably would have flipped out. Had I found out after a few months of DB, I probably would have handled it much much better.
Hey Pilot,
I feel you have a good attitude about a very rough situation. Had you found out after a few months of DB, you may have handled it much better. But try not to dwell on that. When I look back, I make myself "nuts" and feel like I am moving backward. So, try not to be too hard on yourself, okay?
We're all here for you!
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
