That's what everyone is saying but I just don't see how. Plus she's not of the opinion of "it'd be easier if u move out". It's pretty much only one of us is going to live here, her or me and I don't want to. Doesn't look like staying in the same house is really an option at this point. So I'm to understand that me staying and being stuck in a place I don't want while she chooses and gets what she wants in freedom and a new place is better than me leaving because it commands more respect?
I don't get that. I think it's just as much if not more respect to say I can't take this and need to do what's best for me and make the decision and take control to leave.
Also if she has the house she'll be more financial strapped and have more responsibilities with property you own than renting a place. Another way for her to see grass isn't always greener.
M-33 W-33 S-11, S-8 M-11, T-14 BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18 I moved out 5/23