I personally think that it's ok to use exclamation points when appropriate...just sayin!
Try not to let what she does or doesn't do bother you too much. you're doing great, moments of weaknesses are allowed as long as you don't act on them!
Me-44 (45) H- 50 (51) M-'96
S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)
BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas) home Oct(sep rooms) (EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed) insists wants D through July 2015 no more talk of D since