Thank you all so much, I feel like I am going mad at times and reading this forum just puts things into perspective.
I am just sick of him being oh so friendly, fun and the life and soul when we are with our little boy or others and then turning sullen as soon as they are gone.
I am going to try and arrange things for me and s11 to do and just let h go his merry way. (and I say try, I know its going to be hard)
Last thing, how do I stop doing his laundry/cooking etc without s11 noticing?
