Py, I know you're going through more than you really would like to right now. Just remember one thing...you're EARLY in your sitch.
I am over 10 months in and I feel like I'm closing out level I...only to start level II.
It really is a marathon. I'll get my D nailed down, get into a rhythm with work and kids, have some difficult and painful times, and allow this to become the new normal. That might take another year for things to feel like my life isn't some fun house mirror nightmare.
I'm doing well, but it still feels like an elephant in the living room that going through a D isn't really what I'd like to be doing right now.
So relax and give yourself permission to hurt right now. Keep posting, I appreciate your participation on these threads. You're all right Py. Take care.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
