Originally Posted By: Zues126
*No real conversation with WAW since November....when I started I was depressed. I was torn apart from my family. I was a disconnected father....I was spiritually numb. And I was thinking of giving up....And looking at where I am vs. where I was...well, I honestly couldn't be happier.


Wow man. Just...wow. I'm glad I finally read up on your whole situation Zues. I think you epitomize making DB about yourself and not about the spouse.

My WAW and I are both 35 too. I hope I'm as grounded as you when I get to that stage of separation.

5 months NC. All these amazing positive changes. She knows. She feels it. She probably can't even look you in your eye bc of who you are now.


Separated and DB dropped 02/09/15

*I love you people.