Some really good advice from CaliGuy, read it many times and follow it like a bible. It helps and it makes a difference after a while.
I really have no idea if my H will came back or not, but doing the GAL and being more busy with my own life made him pay more attention and even did some stuff in an attempt to stop me, delay me.
So, it works. You are always there, then you are not, you start having your own life without them. That's when they think about what they are doing.
