Congratulations on the job. That's fantastic news and it wasn't a sure thing so you did brilliantly. Starting Tuesday? I take it you're excited?
It's really good news
As for your H, well he responded - that's a start. Who knows whether its an MLC or something else, what matters is that you get to decide what you want to do now.
You don't need to decide straight away and you can let it just sit for a while (and observe your feelings).
When you are ready to you can take steps to progress the things you want to and protect your interests as you see fit.
Congrats on the job and sorry about your idiot H.
((((Toots))))
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress