well yes good point Toots . Ive been staying busy and GAl . however It seems to be to the detriment of my marriage because i have so much going on now Im hardly ever home and when I am its doing chores or spending time with my sons . Very little time spent with W . She doesnt seem to want it or at least she doesnt say so . Any way its not about her . My question was what can I do to be attracted to her again .


Me 45 W 45
Son 16 Son 14
Married 23 together 27
W threatened sep several times
W still at home
A discovered Mar 17 2014
A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )