It was a nice swim and w did invite me in and made me a quick meal since I hadn't eaten apart from a quick sandwhich, chilled evening apart from s feeling a little left out when it was his bed time but managed to settle him wasn't there too late and back for 10:30. Hug and a kiss on her head at the door.
On s,he hasn't asked specifics, both w and I have stayed on the theme we both love him and that won't change no matter what. That's simply because neither of us can promise anything else yet. He must see it since I'm now at the flat several times a week tucking him in etc and we've all been out together several times.
I suspect he hopes mummy and daddy are heading back to being together and has a habit of saying he loves everyone in the room or in the car, w has said she thinks us rebuilding is the absolute best for him but, as I say, neither of is is making promises.
Drove Home with a positive feeling and chilled out (well after sorting bfts litter and putting the swimming gear in the washing machine) still no commitments but a friend of hers invited her to a family event and has now extended that to bringing me as well I do feel were slowly moving closer but thats still not a commitment to work on our m ...yet.
Just keeping those expectations under control
Last edited by edz; 04/30/1510:34 PM.
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015