W called after work and we began talking about the day and the kids. Then after a few minutes, W asked if I would send PDFs of our account statements from the last few months to her.

Then W told me she was meeting with her L on Monday and wanted to know if I wanted to come along. I responded by saying I would have to check my schedule and I would think about it. W asked me again about me wanting D and I told her it isnt something I'm actively pursuing at this time. Then W asked if I've met with my L since a few weeks ago or paid a retainer. I reply no.

I could tell W wanted to talk more about it and wasn't satisfied with my answers but I told W that I had to leave the house and was in a hurry. W said that I'm in a hurry a lot these days.

W then texts me "I wish you would communicate with me."

And then W calls. I don't respond or answer either.
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I don't see a problem with emailing W the account statements from last few months. I imagine she just wants to quell her suspicions that I am funneling money from these accounts. I have nothing to hide.

As far as meeting with her L, my L advised against it. I should probably wait a few days and just tell W that I can't make it.


Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15