W also complained that i was never there for her, i never told her how great of a person she was, and i never showed how much i appreciate her. I am confused on this because i would write her small love notes, put little surprises in her lunch box, get chocolate for her once a month, etc. I guess she wants me to be there for her in other ways.....emotionally?
I know we are not supposed to discuss books n stuff ... but this kind of screams that she is speaking a different love language than you are ... food for thought and might be worth further research.
