PS- the stuff about him not blaming you for your failed M isn't necessarily correct. He may just feel you are "incompatible". He won't blame you because he might believe it wasn't within your control, that's just "how you are". So it's not your fault, it's just you'll obviously never be the kind of woman who he can be safe with because you're
Up to this point, my H has been putting all blame on me due to my personality. Has not admitted to any issues until recently, but does not necessarily recognize or verbalize those issues. So yes, exactly as you indicated, he thinks we should possibly end marriage due to incompatibility. My silver lining, unless he is just stalling, is that he is conflicted on whether divorce or making marriage work is right answer. He wants to make sure he is making right decision. I have the gift of time.
Can't wait to watch the video.
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015
