Hi Toots sorry. That was unexpected for how he had sounded in his previous messages However his reasoning is not really sound. I won't dwell but I would say that now you have an answer you can make a few decisions of your own.
Toots , you are well aware that I am a huge fan and your H is a complete fool
Take your time and let your thoughts settle Toots is going to be more than ok she is going to be great. This is a setback on Toots road but nothing you can't deal with
i like to think we are friends and I wish I could be there for you in person but that's not on the cards so know that I'm here in the virtual world any time. You sound strong but it must have been tough to read. Take care and stay strong Rd. Xxxxx