Just heard from my lawyer that W has not responded and has not retained counsel yet. I guess we're in a holding pattern. I know that I have 60 days from date of my response to provide financial disclosures, but don't know what happens if she doesn't provide her financials. All I know is that I'm not going to hurry the process. I will protect myself, but honestly don't care if divorce process takes years.

I will continue to work on myself and continue detaching. I am not holding my breath, but am still hopeful that she has an epiphany.

Regardless of how it turns out, I will be a better person for my next relationship, whether that be with her or someone else.


Me M51
WW F46
T 17 yrs
M 16 yrs
9 children D29 D27 D26 S24 S24 S19 S19 niece18 S17
8 grandchildren
ILYBINILWY: 12/15/14
I discover PA 12/31/14
She files D: 1/9/15
She moves out 3/2/15
D papers served 3/18/15