I'm with Rick, let it lie. She knows you're there and if she wants to reach out to you then she will. Now, to play the devil's advocate here, maybe she also senses a judgement on your part in regards to her faith and that makes her less likely to turn to your advice. When you describe someone as "uber religious" that says "judgement" to me. (I've never really understood when people put on their dating profiles "spiritual but not religious" Huh?) Her faith may be strong and she turns to what she knows to get her through and to the people she knows understand her faith. Faith can be a rock. Prayer is a conscious act of connecting with God in a way that asks for wisdom and strength and can be an uber good way to approach an issue. God, of course, may be waiting for her to do something rather than waiting for him to do it...but I'm not Him/Her/Whatever! So I'm not sure how her "uber religious" practices effect the situation negatively? And yes, when we sin (miss the mark) we have moved away from God. You may feel her world is too narrow and therefore she sees you as unable to help her. You seem to view the advice she is receiving from friends as unhelpful, she may disagree. I, of course, know you to be a loving person who is there for her but maybe she's not sensing it. Just my 2 cents for what it's worth...but again, I'd let it go...and let God
