TO and Smothy, thank you for your reply. I'm glad I'm not the only one that H is afraid of (you know what I mean)....I thought that was a pretty crazy one, but I guess not.

TO, I have read though all of your threads and wanted to say I'm glad to hear that you and your M are in such a better place. I've read so many, I forget all the details. What did your H say was the reason he changed his mind and came back?

Smothy, it is sure hard to believe that they are hurting too, but I'm sure it is true. Hang in there!

Me:36 H: 29
T: 4 years
M: 2 years
No kids
In-house sep 10/4/14
H moved out 1/2/15
Talk of D 4/9/15

"She's standing on a line between giving up and seeing how much more she can take" John Mayer