RealMe, thank you for your reply. It is one thing to suspect, but it feels like a knife in my heart to actually have confirmation. Maybe the silver lining is that now that it is out in the open, maybe it can run it's course faster.... I just kept thinking that if he was trying to hide it or it was secret that maybe it wasn't progressing as quickly as it would if it were "public", you know?

Me:36 H: 29
T: 4 years
M: 2 years
No kids
In-house sep 10/4/14
H moved out 1/2/15
Talk of D 4/9/15

"She's standing on a line between giving up and seeing how much more she can take" John Mayer