Thanks Guys - I got the job! I hadn't realised, but there was another candidate too - and they liked him, just not for this role. I start with them Tuesday.

I received a big email from H this morning. I didn't look at it until I got home. But he wants to go ahead with divorce. This thread is about to lock, so I'll start a new one and post what he said there.

Thanks for your good wishes xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus