Thanks, TenBook.

Yes, he is going out with work colleagues. Says it helps him will feeling happy and gives space to see if he misses me. He is not acting himself though. Acting like he is 30 year old intead of 41. Working out kick, tanning, etc. Stays out unti late with no communication/engagement for two days and then expects me to engage when he is willing/ his terms.

Says A ended earlier this year and nothing currently going on. says he has no reason to lie to me now as hour marriage has hit rock bottom. He says he is not Looking for that right now. Do I believe him, no sure.

I am not willing to be his backup plan or treated cruelty, which is what he is doing.


Me: 42 H: 40
M: 12
H moved out - 8/2015
I filed - 8/2015