Thank you Cadet. I understand now. I feel that I was very needy with my husband, for his affection, and I relied way to much on him to make me happy....way to much, to the point I didn't appreciate what I did already have with him! I didn't come from a place of love, but more a place of entitlement. In my journey so far, I think I made those discoveries early on, and have really done a lot of work to change my way of thinking.
M: 47 / H: 52 No children. Own a business together. Told me he wanted a divorce: 3/31 Moved out: 4/7 Confirmed OW: 4/16 Took divorce off the table: 4/24