Zeus,

I totally get what you are saying. I guess I have a hard time with the fact that my H never truly expressed to my how much he was hurting, but I think I see your point. I should have realized on my own. I am 100% willing to work on this part of me. I am not sure how to get this across to my H. I want that physical intimacy to be a part of our M moving forward. It one of the things I am trying to better understand about myself.

Do you have suggestions on how to communicate this to my H in ways that will resonate with him or are you saying from you perspective it is a little too late?


Me: 42 H: 40
M: 12
H moved out - 8/2015
I filed - 8/2015