Kat regarding the gal going through a divorce I would leave alone. You cant force someone to listen.
Sounds like you are stagnant where you are. I think it is very normal. It happened to me especially when I turned 50. I sat on those feelings for a bit. Told myself that I needed to slow down. im in no rush to make changes. Im a planner and not planing makes me crazy. But it feels good at times.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”