Kat regarding the gal going through a divorce I would leave alone. You cant force someone to listen.

Sounds like you are stagnant where you are. I think it is very normal. It happened to me especially when I turned 50. I sat on those feelings for a bit. Told myself that I needed to slow down. im in no rush to make changes. Im a planner and not planing makes me crazy. But it feels good at times.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden