Comments like "I told him that I said my vows and I was going to honour them." Either provide him security that you will wait for him no matter what OR it provides pressure to him.
I think dropping the rope/the safety net is required so that he feels what life is like without you.
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015
