In need of opinions

[dawgy]

Hi everyone . Its Dawgy . Im back .Still in limbo at home . Ive asked her to leave multiple times over the last few months . She said she was going to . But shes still there cooking cleaning and paying bills . Not sure why . We dont sleep together and havent for a good seven months .
we had a big discussion a couple weeks ago about why she was still there and she said because she was scared . I told her I understood and I wouldn t kick her out . But the paperwork for a separation was going to proceed .
Reality has finally set in for her . wow it only took 15 months. She told me that what she thought would take place was nt being realistic .I dont know if she still sees the POS or not . I ve stopped snooping and spying along time ago . The divorce busting techniques ei Sandis list takes along time to learn. But I believe ive got it now .
Im looking for opinions on what my next move may be . As far as trying to rekindle some feelings . Also the boys know all now , they have for two months . And they know everything