He contacted me last night. He wants us to get back together, eventually. I have been adamant about him going his own way and doing his own thing. I have so much work to do on myself, my house and my relationship with my children. He feels insecure about me being on my own and that I might find someone else. I felt the same way when he first left, then I started to GAL. I told him that I said my vows and I was going to honour them. There has never been anyone else for either of us. He resumes individual counselling next week, so do I. We both want to do couples counselling as soon as possible. We have a lot of work to do. I have to figure out if I can forgive the fact that he left me when I was at my sickest. Oh heck...there are a lot of things to get over before I can say for sure we will get back together. Yesterday it dawned on me that I have the power back in this relationship. I don't really want it, but it is nice that now my emotions are affected by my decisions, not his.
Di-mond in the rough M-45 H-38 My children S-25 D-23 T 5 M 4 H left April Fools Day 2015
