Bright, I think some of them do seem to go round and round. I think they can't find their way out of the fog. Maybe too painful? It sounds like our xh's actually had a happy life with us, and now? Maybe questioning what they did is too painful. I don't know.
My xh certainly seems to go round and round. What is really going on is impossible to know. Doesn't stop me occasionally wondering though, even after all this time.
