Control sited as to why an affair

[MrBond]

"No I don't believe it's it natural end of the A that me and W had. "

That's what they all say. You're just seeing it from the other side of the fence for a change. I'm sure your exes said the same thing about the two of you when you cheated, but you believed it was "fate", "true love", etc.

Just being upfront and honest with you here. When you heard that all (I would say "most") A's end, did you ever wonder how? They end the way you're going through.

The point is that your W wants to end it because she found someone else, same as what she did with you and her first H. You're not going to be able to get her to "see the light" on your own if she did this before. She has to come to that realization herself.