Control sited as to why an affair

[Closer2]

Try to avoid talking to her if at all possible. If you talk about the M, A, OM, D, really anything at all, she'll think of it as relationship talk, controlling, pursuing. It'll push her away and her responses will aggravate you because they wont be what you want to hear.

Try to relax. Play with you son or go for a walk. Just sitting outside alone is better than the back and forth.

It's hard as hell, but you have to fight through the impulse to reason. Reasoning isn't going to happen.