Feeling so hopeless

[Lucy105]

Thank you RealMe.

I want to run something past everyone. I have a male friend that I met when I sold some of my camera gear. Him and his wife are such kind people! He confided in me, that he had had an affair, and everything they went through. He recently suggested to me that I tell my husband that he has not burned any bridges with me, and I am always willing to work on our relationship. He said if his wife hadn't done that, that he would have kept going with the affair.

I don't think my husband is ready for that right now, with as irrational as they say he has been, and as angry as he's been. But would anyone suggest this down the road?