I have to agree with you - when Wonka is right he is right.
Your comment below made me smile because I'm so thrilled we were able to help:
"Talking to complete strangers on an internet board did too funny enough."
Keep doing what you've been doing RealMe.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15