I'm sorry you're here but I had to Laugh when I read your update.
Not at you or your sitch but your H. My H said the same thing about his safety. He's a pretty built guy and has no reason to fear his safety around me. He used this excuse for him not coming over to our house when I was home. Total script. Don't react to it.
Oh and... You can talk til your blue in the face. There's not one thing right now that's going to make or break it. I thought I could say things that would snap H back to realizing he wanted to be with me. Def didn't happen.
Let him be with Ow. As train told me and I'm telling you - she will show her true colors eventually. Step back and let that happen. its his mess and when it goes up in flames you don't want to get burned
