This is coming from a woman that used to brag to her friends how much I helped and took care of her when she was sick.
Joe,
OMG! My W used to "brag" about me, too, in the exact same way your W did. (My W has MS and related health issues.) When I read that particular sentence I thought, "Did I write that?"
So, I get it. I know it really hurts Joe. But, when things fall apart, the unhappy spouse starts dwelling on your flaws more than your good points. It isn't right or fair, but that is their reality and how they perceive us now.
Somehow, I have a feeling you're going to get thru this.
Hang in there and don't pressure her.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
