I am reluctantly posting my update here as I believe the board has 'eyes".
My mlcer just might take 3rd or 4rd prize for nuttiness just behind Job's and Bea's xh's. I can't get into details here but I'm not sure that a sane judge would allow what is being proposed as a financial and asset settlement agreement.
The D papers were hand carried and served to me last week by my mlcer. I'm doing okay but have had a few very difficult days. I expected this so it's not a surprise but it still stings quite a bit. 3 sheets of paper (yep that's all), a few signatures and 90 days will dissolve 36+ years of marriage to my best friend, life companion and the person that knows me deeper than anyone else in life. I don't know what else to say at this point. I'm still processing my thoughts.
It's sad when someone that you've spent over half of your life with feels the it's necessary to walk away in order to become whole. I understand why it has to be this way, have expected it yet seeing your marriage wiped away with a signature is more difficult than I ever imagined. Yeah, it's a piece of paper and it won't take away the memories, the love that we had, the life and children that we created but it does take a piece of my heart.
I will try to find a generic thread to post more but for now, your prayers are welcome and needed.
Job, I tried to find Holly06's thread again but most of it appears to have been wiped out since I last read it. As I said before, I have a full life and much to keep my mind occupied while I find my way through this. I will survive and thrive with or without my mlcer!
More will follow when I find a safe place to post.
Me:57H:62 M:34T:35 2S,2D (grown nlah) BD:09/2012 visits M ow EA/PA?:10/2012 H moves out 06/2013
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama
