As others have posted, I'm sorry that you are here but it is like one supportive family. You will be, as I'm sure you've already noticed, understood and given good advice.
I believe my good friend Mahhhty said, "We all have a hand in how our spouse reacts" or something similar. I couldn't agree with him more. It seems like you have the right attitude. Hang tough.
Also, if you have time, you may want to create a "signature" so people, at a quick glance, have some idea about your situation. Something like what you see at the bottom of this post.
I wish you well, Lucy.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
